Mats Wolf

Date archives August 2013

Approach women / nightgame / pickup artist / PUA / Seduction / simple pickup

How to pick up girls in a club

Take care of your physical appearance

Needless to say and probably the most important aspect is your physical appearance. How should a girl love you if you don’t even love yourself enough to take care of your body? Make sure you’ve showered, shaved and cleaned off. Dress stylish in clean and comfortable clothing.

Avoid getting (too) drunk

There is nothing wrong with having 2-3 drinks throughout the night because literally it will have a supporting function as you get relaxed, open and encouraged. I usually go out without drinking, but it has to be your personal preference. But bear in mind that no girl will talk to a drunk and stumbling guy who says weird things. So enjoy the night, have fun but drink alcohol in moderation!

Bring your friends with you

Spending a night in a club all alone will force you to talk to others but all in all you are more relaxed when you have your wingman as a supporter with you. In a group it can even be more fun. In case you don’t meet new people, you still have a fun night with your friends and wingmen.

Keep the conversation light and funny

After you have approached a girl and are talking to her, remember to keep the conversation light and funny. Suitable to the location, you shouldn’t discuss serious topics and problems. Make jokes, laugh hard, break the ice and ask her simple questions. In order to keep the contact through the evening, you can let her invite you for a drink and introduce her girls crew to your friends.

Be direct and take her for a dance

Sometimes a simple, confident approach is all you need to get the girl on your arm. Once you’ve smiled, made eye contact, and said a few words, nod towards the floor and ask or better take her to dance.

Exchange number and facebook

After you’ve danced, chatted, and had a good time, exchange numbers or at least facebook and let her know you had a good time. If there is a more sexual vibe, you might even pull the girl home from the club.