Mats Wolf

Date archives December 2013

Dating Advice / dating coach / simple pickup / social dynamics

How To Date A Girl

There’s a special girl you’d like to getting to know but you don’t know how to ask her for a date? No Problem! The following steps will help you to arrange for a perfect date.

First of all – and this is the most important step – be yourself. Don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t and don’t lie about your hobbies. When you say you can play the guitar she might want to hear you playing a song for her. So just be honest about yourself and be real.

The next step is to present yourself. You don’t have to wear the latest trends but dress suitable for the location you meet her. When you dress at your personal best you will feel confident in it and you will also act more confident.

When you are poised for a talk with her don’t be shy although she’s beautiful. Compliments are always a good way to show your girl you like her but don’t overstate with your compliments! Try to give her the feeling you’re not only interested in her look but also in her intellect. Furthermore, you should avoid sexual comments. It’s better to comment about her smile, her eyes or her hair.

Then, let her get comfortable with you. On that score you shouldn’t be too critical with her. Ask a lot of questions and show her you are listening and care about her. Have some fun together but avoid making fun of her, her friends, her family and things that seem to be important for her.

When you think the time has come, ask her for a date! Take her to a special place. It doesn’t have to be expensive but show her you made some thoughts. For example you can take her to your favorite restaurant or organize a romantic picnic. While your date try not to be too nervous. Of course having a date is always exciting but try to have a good time and enjoy your date!

If you think she’s interested in you, too, you can try to get physical. Taking her hand or embrace her will take your relationship to the next level.

After your date show her that you are a reliable guy. Don’t wait to long after you promised her to call. Waiting to long could give her the feeling that you are not interested anymore.

Last but not least don’t forget to surprise her from time to time. Again, it doesn’t have to be expensive. Of course, not every girl likes the same surprises but almost every girl likes to get some flowers or have a dinner you cooked by yourself.